Though some of these following requests might appear to be self-centered and over indulged, they are what many women would like from a partner. However, if you look at the request for what they are really saying, you can hear that they want love and attention. These women like all women want to be loved and adored. They require what sounds like simple things. They want to be appreciated for the woman and feminine beings that that they are. Here are some of the requests I have heard form women over the years:
- Spend time with me
- Allow me to share my feelings
- Share your pleasure with me
- Be open with your feelings
- Feel good about us or leave
- Knows where to stand as a man
- Have confidence
- Be romantic
- Offer me protection
- Takes pride in our relationship
- Respect me
- Be thoughtful
- Give me the gift of time…
- Listen
- Tell me I am beautiful and appreciated
- Asking my opinion regarding a life decision that you are thinking about making…
- Kiss me on my forehead after serving him dinner
- Kiss me on my forehead, nose, cheeks, chin, left boobie and right boobie 5:30 in the morning when he leaves for work
- Text me he made it to work and that he can’t wait to get back home.
- Give me reasons to giggle
- Compliment me in detail
- Randomly express how he appreciates me in his life
- Kiss tears away when they fall
- Put a warm rag on my tummy during that time, hand me 2 Aleve, and some water, make me some tea, and hold me to distract from the pain and discomfort until I fall asleep
- Give me words of encouragement
- Be loyal
- Acknowledgment my accomplishments
- Give me emotional support coupled with physical touch (such as a hug, human touch doesn’t mean sexual)
- Hold me tighter when the alarm goes off
- Speak about our future together in detail
- Motivate me, it shows your belief in who I am and what I do
Simple things mean a lot to every girl. Small talks, weird topics, smiles, a thank you, and a lot more. But nothing beats the respect, thoughtfulness, time and sincerity of what a man can give to his woman. 🙂 It’s the simple things, not so much the grandeur gestures.